How to Wear Hold-Ups
Hold-ups (also called stay-ups or self-supporting stockings) use silicone bands to grip your thighs without a garter belt. They're convenient and modern, but require the right technique to stay in place all day.
How Hold-Ups Work
The science behind stay-up stockings:
- Silicone bands: Sticky strips inside the welt
- Skin grip: Silicone adheres to clean, dry skin
- No garters needed: Self-supporting design
- Invisible: Nothing shows under clothes
Types of Silicone Bands
Single Band
- One strip of silicone
- Most common, budget-friendly
- Works for most wearers
- May slip on some skin types
Double Band
- Two parallel silicone strips
- Better grip and security
- Distributes pressure
- Less likely to roll
Wide Band
- Broader silicone area
- Maximum grip
- Most comfortable
- Best for larger thighs
Getting Them to Stay Up
Skin Preparation
The key to hold-ups staying put:
- Clean skin: Wash thighs, remove any residue
- Completely dry: No moisture at all
- No lotion: Oils prevent silicone grip
- No powder: Creates barrier
Shower earlier in the day so skin is fully dry.
Positioning
- High enough: Place at widest part of thigh
- Same height: Both stockings at equal level
- Smooth band: No wrinkles or folds in silicone
- Press firmly: Ensure full contact with skin
The Sweet Spot
Finding the right position on your thigh:
- Too low: Falls down easily
- Too high: Uncomfortable, may roll
- Just right: Where thigh starts to taper
Why Hold-Ups Slip
Common Causes
- Lotion/oil on skin: #1 reason for slipping
- Sweating: Moisture breaks the seal
- Wrong size: Too tight stretches silicone thin
- Worn silicone: Old stockings lose grip
- Thigh shape: Very slim or very full thighs
Solutions
- Body adhesive: Spirit gum or fashion tape
- Antiperspirant: On thighs to reduce sweat
- Different brand: Silicone quality varies
- Garter belt: Accept defeat, go traditional
Hold-Ups vs. Garter Belt Stockings
| Hold-Ups | Garter Belt + Stockings |
|---|---|
| Convenient | More secure |
| Nothing shows | Visible under tight clothes |
| Quick bathroom | More steps |
| Can slip | Won't fall down |
| Modern look | Vintage/lingerie aesthetic |
| Hot weather issues | Works in any weather |
Best Occasions for Hold-Ups
- Date nights: Convenient, sexy surprise
- Office wear: Practical under suits
- Weddings: Easy bathroom visits
- Under tight dresses: No bumps from garters
- Quick outfit changes: Fast on and off
When to Avoid Hold-Ups
- Very hot weather: Sweat breaks the seal
- Dancing/active events: Movement causes slipping
- All-day wear: May need readjustment
- If they've never worked for you: Some skin types just don't grip
Caring for Hold-Ups
Washing
- Hand wash: Protects silicone
- Cool water: Heat damages silicone
- Rinse silicone well: Soap residue reduces grip
- Air dry: Never machine dry
Restoring Grip
If silicone loses stickiness:
- Wash with mild soap
- Rinse thoroughly
- Let dry completely
- Grip often returns after washing
Sizing for Hold-Ups
Size matters more with hold-ups:
- Too small: Band stretched thin, less grip
- Too big: Band loose, won't stay up
- Right size: Snug but not stretched
If between sizes, go smaller for better grip.
Brand Recommendations
- Best grip: Wolford, Falke
- Good value: Pretty Polly, Charnos
- Wide bands: Commando, Spanx
Hold-Up Success Checklist
- ☐ Clean, dry skin
- ☐ No lotion or powder
- ☐ Right size
- ☐ High on thigh
- ☐ Silicone smooth, no wrinkles